Hey y’all. I’m over at Journey On Today with a devotion today! Pop over there sometime today.
Hi y’all…I am over on Journey On Today (a daily devotional series published by Brentwood Baptist Church) sharing about the Transfiguration on the Mount from Peter’s point of view.
I think we are more Peter than we admit…
You can check that out here. (If you are reading this after November 30th you can still read the devotional by selecting the drop down date for today)
Often it’s not that we are asking a question, but that it’s the wrong one.
I am a member of a satellite campus of a larger church in Nashville/Brentwood area. Often times I listen to our Senior Pastor’s sermon via podcast during the week. It’s really insightful to see the various ways God uses individuals to speak about Scripture.
This week’s y’all…I have listened to Mike’s sermon three times…THREE. Because it’s just that good. I’ll probably keep it archived so I can come back to it again and again.
Here’s the rub…it’s about asking the wrong question. We can ask, we just ask the wrong thing. So let me just let Mike do the talking here.
I wanted to share that I am over on Journey On today sharing on a passage in Numbers with regards to healthy relationships. I hope you’ll take the time to read the devotion and think about the passage.
It meant so much to me to write this one as I value friendships highly, the people God has placed in my life are so rich with joy, passion, care and love. I know the ones I have in my life at this very moment He has ordained to be blessed, and I get the honor of praying blessings over them. It made me realize just how much friendships matter and how we can be more than to our friends.
How we encourage, support and bless our friends matters…it speaks to Who He is in the midst of it all.
Also I encourage you to read through this week’s devotions on the site and invite you to walk through this study of healthy relationships, as it’s been an eye-opening and soul-gutting look at what healthy is defined as in light of God’s Word.
Today we kick off a new series at my church called “Healthy Relationships” and it has me thinking (shocking I know!).
We are relational beings. We need people. We need community.
Since God created Adam in the Garden, He established a want for relationship-with Him and with one another. How we do those relationships looks so vastly different across the globe, and even within our own home.
My relationship to my family is different than yours, just as your friendships look alot different than mine. For me, I have a wide group of friendships but only a handful of people I keep really close to me for what I affectionately call “real talk.” We keep each other accountable, we encourage, we vent, and we do life together and not all of them are friends with each other.
A growing weariness has spawned in me over relationships over the last several years. Most of it having to do with social media. This weariness comes from being a deep level friend to alot more people felt like it was required. To keep up with everyone I had to constantly be scanning my feeds, liking posts and looking at a thousand pictures of new babies or spouses.
What I have found though is that social media is good at connecting, but not good at sustaining. It’s a convenience to know that friends I made while building houses together in high school from other states are now pursuing adoption (yay for the Bells!) and gives me an avenue to extend encouragement and prayer. But it is no substitute for time spent in relationships in real time, connecting over dinner or on a couch as a friend struggles through a season of singleness.
What social media isn’t good at is sustaining healthy relationships, engaging in actual life with one another, as you don’t see many posting about their marital issues or work-related struggles. We get funny quips about the toddler not sleeping through the night, but we don’t get the parents struggling to parent or battling the day-in day-out pressures of raising a kid in this century.
Healthy relationships don’t have to be perfect, nor do they need to be glossed up for show. But I do believe the first step to a healthy relationship with your family, your friends, your boss or coworkers, your neighbors starts by being present in their lives, engaging beyond a “thumbs up” on a status or a Snapchat message.
Take a step away from the computer, phone, tablet and engage in a relationship today and this week. Ask someone to coffee or dinner. Grab lunch with a coworker. Seek out relationships you want to be a part of this week that are truly in real life and in need of your time. Community is vital for our lives, mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. We aren’t meant to do it alone, much less from behind a screen.
Hey all…I know it’s been quiet this week around here but I wanted to let you know you can find me a couple of other places this week.
For one I am over on Single Roots answering the big Q about whether guys and girls can be friends with some of the other SR Team. You can find that post here. I would love for you to weigh in on that there in the comments. Did we get it wrong? What are your thoughts on this age old question?
The second place you can find me is today…I am over at JourneyOn Today, the daily devotion series from Brentwood Baptist where I am a part of the Lenten series. Go back and read the other amazing devotions if you don’t have a good devotion for Lent. They are crazy talented and spiritual giants writing these. I was honored to be asked to write for this, and if you have some quiet time today to take a look at my post on the Passover. Special shoutout to a friend who helped me connect a piece of that writing with a thought I couldn’t quite sew up.
I hope you all are having a great week! We’ll meet back here soon!